The Balinese Perspective

I had a very interesting conversation last night with the manager of the homestay I am at here in Ubud about life in Bali and the differences between life in America and Europe compared to Bali. We talked a lot about careers, money, religion, and relationships. He gave me some very interesting insight into life here and why the Balinese do things the way they do.

He said that the reason there are not many professional people here in Bali is mostly because of religion. The majority of the country is Hindu, and besides the fact that there are many ceremonies that take place every year (which makes traveling impossible), you have to make offerings two or three times a day. So you need a job that allows you to do that. He said there aren't really high schools here because since most people are focused on their religion and their families, there isn't a need for higher education. He also told me that the reason why most people in Bali are so poor is that even though they do not have any taxes here, at least 50% of their income goes to all of the ceremonies taking place at their temples. Offerings, food, and clothing all have to be taken care of.

We talked a lot about work and differences in perspective about careers, money, and motivation. While in America it seems the majority of people are content to work long hours, have stressful jobs, mostly just thinking about themselves and how to make the most money. Here, people are content to have simple, low stress jobs that allow them to have time to devote to their families, religion, and helping their neighbors.

We also talked a lot about love, family, and relationships. He said that when you're in love, everything is good. He said the views are prettier and the places you go are more fun when you're with someone you love. He told me not to worry about work and to get a boyfriend instead. Not sure about all that, I'm still not ready to seek someone out but I am going to work on being more open to the possibility of meeting someone.

I've had a lot of time to think while I've been here, and I've been meditating more trying to clear my head and decide what really matters and what I really want in life. I've lived pretty simply here with few possessions and without spending a lot of money. I know I'm going to be in for a rude awakening when I get back to Los Angeles, but I think I'm ready to do some downsizing. Let the planning begin...